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Wednesday, May 24, 2006

Jordan & Syria as if there was no tomorrow - Part II

Scenes of the last episode:
Eventually, our nice jordanian driver arrived and there we were on our way to Petra.. It was not a long drive, about 2-3 hours but...

Today's episode:
... but it was really amazing. The settings would change from desert to big mountains and valleys, different colours, different people and almost no other cars on the road. Especially amazing to see all the bedouin tents with their goats and donkeys around it.

Reached to Petra it was time to decide where to stay. After seeing an hotel that was really expensive (8 euros per person) we ended up staying in one that included breakfast for seven. You wont imagine how good it is the feeling to have something for so "cheap" especially if you consider Europe's price or even Dubai's price for accommodation. Anyways, it was now time to head to Petra.. we were all so excited to see it that there was no time to loose.. Except for another stop for shoarma, of course. :)

View from our Hotel Room in Petra

Walking in Petra

Petra is just amazing.. there is no words to describe it. I clearly believe it is something everyone should see.

We might have not been the first ones to get there on that day but we were clearly the last ones to leave... It all started with a little trekking that took us around 3-4 hours and suddenly there we were in the most distant spot from the entrance. The question then was that all over the place, including our tickets there were warnings saying " it is not advisable for visitors to remain inside Petra after sunset".
But see, it was not that easy.. Can you really reject the possibility of watching an amazing sunset, in Petra, with your friends and your most recent friend, Yasser and no one else but the donkey and the bedouin tents on the other side of the valley?

So, bravely (well, there was really nothing to be afraid of, according to Yasser) we stayed and watched the sunset, bit by bit, with no time for photographs, just apreciating the moment and the wise words of our new friend.

Yasser, our new friend, is one of these amazing kids you meet once or twice in your life. He is a little bedouin kid, 11 yrs old, who learned english by talking to tourists in Petra and that has a smile and eyes that are unforgettable. He doesnt go to school as he spends his days in Petra, with his little donkey, carrying tourists that are tired of walking or just want to take a "cool pic" to show friends back home. Of course, being a "civilized westerner" (please note that I am being ironic about myself) I had to pop the question: "so, you dont go to school? why? It is very important!!".. His answer left me bitter sweet: "I dont like school that much see?! Because there you are inside 4 walls, locked. Here I can learn about everything, I can be in Petra with my donkey everyday and be free and talk to you and the tourists. You wouldnt come to my school would you? See, if I was in school I wouldnt have met you"... I tried to rationalize my thoughts and reply back with a smart answer that would clearly show him the benefits of an education and so on, but the only thing that was coming to my mind was the image of me "locked" in my office cubicle, with my eyes on the computer, talking on my mobile about something silly. I guess, for a change, I was speechless.

Once the sunset was over it was now time to head back and face the hard walk back to the gate.. 3 hours of trekking still awaited us (I was already dead tired of walking half an hour after we got to Petra so you can imagine how I was feeling by then...). But Yasser had a plan.. he was only one and one donkey but he would go back and see if his friends were still downthere. If so, he would bring them all to us so that they would give us a donkey ride back to the gate. And off he went with his little donkey down the stoned carved stairs and the "canyons". We kept walking down for an hour or so until we found our "cavalry" waiting for us.

You cant imagine how happy we all were!! So, half an hour later, after some bargaining and tough times in getting our big as*** u up on the asses :) (aqui fica o belo do trocadilho), our "journey back home" began..

Rui and his donkey before & after the "big fall"



As the ride began my attempt to "educate" Yasser continued, but somehow he always managed to "win" and leave me with no counter arguments. This time I wanted to blackmail him telling him that if he didnt go to school he couldnt have a profession when he became older. "So, Yasser, tell me.. what do you want to be when you grow older?" I almost fell out of the donkey with laughter after I heard his answer: "When I grow older? I want to be married!!". Definitely not the answer I was expecting... I simply replied "see, you know.. to get a wife you need to have money, to take care of her, so that she likes you". I should have just remained silent..
His answer and his pureness just melted my heart.. "I dont need much money, I can work here in Petra or take care of the goats for my father.. And my wife, i want her to love me for my heart. And I will love her for her heart too. Not for her money.. money is nothing for me, friendship is all (at this point he and his friends were indeed carrying us for free although we had paid them the firts part of the journey and we also wanted to pay them but they didnt accept it...) and that is what matters" In the back of my head I just wished it was really that simple. Maybe it really is and we are the ones who complicate it. Anyway, I couldnt help to compare this young adult at the age of 11 with other 11 yrs old I know who spend their time playing with their Playstation and asking their parents for a new mobile because theirs doesnt have bluetooth.

And there we were on the way to the gate, with our new friends, our philosophies of life exchanges and with the beautiful echo of the bedouin song the kids were singing on the stone walls and canyons of Petra.



For a while, I couldnt ask for a better place to be.

To be continued

3 Comments:

At 5/25/2006 12:31 PM, Maria said...

Ana, nice to see a pic of Rui!

Ure trip sounds amazing!
take care and lets try to meet somewhere this year!!

 
At 5/26/2006 1:55 AM, Tru said...

ahh, niceee!!
have got these cy'ies down on my travel list, but seems like they need to be a bit postponed as I'll take up the Latin-American tour first :))
all the best to you!!

 
At 5/29/2006 11:59 AM, Rafael Gonzalez said...

Ana, it is really interesting to see how experienced and intelligent that kid was, and it is scary when you compare that with us "Westerners" and how we see things.
Your tale reminded me of another tale I received a long time ago and wanted to share it with you, it is long but worth the read:

An American was sitting in a dock in a small Caribbean town when a little boat with a fisherman came in, inside the boat were several well sized tunas.
The American praised the fisherman for his catch and asked him how long it took him to catch them, to which he responded that it only took a little while.
The American asked him why didn't he stay longer and get more fish, and the fisherman responded that he had enough to satisfy the immediate needs of his family.
The American asked what he was doing the rest of his time, and he responded "I sleep till late, fish a little, play with my kids, rest with my wife, I go every night to the town to get some wine and play guitar with my friends. I have a nice and busy life"
The American replied "I am from Harvard and can help you. You should invest more time in fishing and with the extra income buy a bigger boat, with the extra incomes from the bigger boat you could buy several boats; eventually you will have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling the fish to the middle man you could sell it directly to a processing company and eventually open your own processing company. You should control your production, the processing and distribution. You should leave this town and go to the Capital, from where you would manage your expansion"
At this point the fisherman asked "But how long will all of that take?" and the American replied "between 15 and 20 years", "And then what?" Asked the fisherman
The American laughed and said that was the best part "When it is time you should sell the stocks from your company to the public. You will be rich and have millions!!"
"Millions? and then what?" Asked the fisherman
"Then you can retire, move to a little town near the coast where you can sleep till late, fish a little, play with my kids, rest with your wife, go every night to the town to get some wine and play guitar with your friends"
And the fisherman said "And isn't that what I have right now!!"


Happiness is a very subjective and personal thing, it changes with time and evolves with us, and I just hope that by moving and traveling we do not miss that small town near the coast, or that wife and the donkeys...

 

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